How to develop your
personality
Sunday,
July 12, 2020
1:35 PM
- Be a better listener. Jacqueline kennedy Onassis was consider she cultivated the skill of being an exceptional listener. She was know for the way she would look a person in the eyes, hang on their every word, and make them feel important. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
- Read more and expand your interest. The more you read and cultivate new interest , the more interesting you are to others. When you meet new people it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views with them.
- Be a good conversationalist. This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others. No one can read about or know everything, so it's refreshing to learn from others those things we don't have the time to about read ourselves. If you happen to be shy, join a group like Toastmasters that encourages you to talk about what you know.
- Have an Opinion. There is more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has to opinion on anything. A conversation has nowhere to get if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or different opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be with socially (unless you're a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone's perspective.
- Meet New People. Make the effort to meet people especially those unlike you. It not only expose you to different culture and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons.
- Be yourself. The next most tiresome thing after having no opinion is trying to be something you're not. Molding yourself in order to fit in, or be accepted, usually backfires. Since each of us is interesting. Attempting to b a carbon copy of someone else not only falls, but reveals a lack of authenticity.
- Have a positive outlook and attitude. Who wants to be around people who are negative, cmplain a lot, or have nothing goos to say? In fact, most of us run when we see them coming. Instead, be the think of upbeat person who lights up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the best in people and things. Smile warmly, spread good cheer and enliven others with your presence.
- Be fun and see the humorous side of life. Everyone enjoy the company of someone who makes them laugh, or smile, so look for the humorous, quirky side in a situation there always is one. Comic relief is a much welcome you can add fun and lightheartedness to an otherwise dull or gloomy setting, others will naturally be attractive to you. Not to mention grateful.
- Be supportive of others. Being supportive is probably the most endearing quality you can integrate into your personality. Just as you yourself welcome it, be the support for others when they need it. We all love a cheerleader in our corner: someone who is encouraging. Believes in us and helps pick us when we're down.
- Have Integrity and treat people with respect. Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Nothing improves a person's personality more than integrity and respect respect for others as, well as respect for ourself.
What is personality
The personality is
the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person
unique.
When we say that
someone has a ''good personality'' we mean that they are likeable, interesting
and pleasant to be with.
Everyone wants to
be attractive to others. To that end, having a good personality is
vital-probably even more so than good looks.
In fact,
approximately 85 percent of your success and happiness will be a result of how
well you interact with others. Ultimately , it is your personality that
determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.
While we can only
enhance our looks to a certain extent, we have the ability to improve the
personality as much we want. We can develop or ingrate into personalities any
trait we deem fitting and agreeable.
Here
are 10 great ways to improve your personality;
Enjoy the article:
We humans have the
power and ability to shape our personalities however we wish. When we develop ourselves to be all
that we can be contributes to our own, as well as the happiness of others.
On a related note,
having a pleasant, engaging personality is significantly related to Emotional
Intelligence (EI or EQ). Those of us possessing high EI invariably have great
personalities.
- Be a better listener. Jacqueline kennedy Onassis was consider she cultivated the skill of being an exceptional listener. She was know for the way she would look a person in the eyes, hang on their every word, and make them feel important. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
- Read more and expand your interest. The more you read and cultivate new interest , the more interesting you are to others. When you meet new people it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views with them.
- Be a good conversationalist. This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others. No one can read about or know everything, so it's refreshing to learn from others those things we don't have the time to about read ourselves. If you happen to be shy, join a group like Toastmasters that encourages you to talk about what you know.
- Have an Opinion. There is more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has to opinion on anything. A conversation has nowhere to get if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or different opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be with socially (unless you're a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone's perspective.
- Meet New People. Make the effort to meet people especially those unlike you. It not only expose you to different culture and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons.
- Be yourself. The next most tiresome thing after having no opinion is trying to be something you're not. Molding yourself in order to fit in, or be accepted, usually backfires. Since each of us is interesting. Attempting to b a carbon copy of someone else not only falls, but reveals a lack of authenticity.
- Have a positive outlook and attitude. Who wants to be around people who are negative, cmplain a lot, or have nothing goos to say? In fact, most of us run when we see them coming. Instead, be the think of upbeat person who lights up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the best in people and things. Smile warmly, spread good cheer and enliven others with your presence.
- Be fun and see the humorous side of life. Everyone enjoy the company of someone who makes them laugh, or smile, so look for the humorous, quirky side in a situation there always is one. Comic relief is a much welcome you can add fun and lightheartedness to an otherwise dull or gloomy setting, others will naturally be attractive to you. Not to mention grateful.
- Be supportive of others. Being supportive is probably the most endearing quality you can integrate into your personality. Just as you yourself welcome it, be the support for others when they need it. We all love a cheerleader in our corner: someone who is encouraging. Believes in us and helps pick us when we're down.
- Have Integrity and treat people with respect. Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Nothing improves a person's personality more than integrity and respect respect for others as, well as respect for ourself.
When we say that
someone has a ''good personality'' we mean that they are likeable, interesting
and pleasant to be with.
Everyone wants to
be attractive to others. To that end, having a good personality is
vital-probably even more so than good looks.
In fact,
approximately 85 percent of your success and happiness will be a result of how
well you interact with others. Ultimately , it is your personality that
determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.
While we can only
enhance our looks to a certain extent, we have the ability to improve the
personality as much we want. We can develop or ingrate into personalities any
trait we deem fitting and agreeable.
Here
are 10 great ways to improve your personality;
Enjoy the article:
We humans have the
power and ability to shape our personalities however we wish. When we develop ourselves to be all
that we can be contributes to our own, as well as the happiness of others.
On a related note,
having a pleasant, engaging personality is significantly related to Emotional
Intelligence (EI or EQ). Those of us possessing high EI invariably have great
personalities.
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